Behind Closed Doors: Prosecuting Intimate Partner Sexual Violence in Big Little Lies

Longtime prosecutor and District Attorney Ric Hertel takes a deep look at Big Little Lies and its depiction of intimate partner sexual assault. Drawing from nearly three decades in the courtroom, Ric examines the realities behind marital rape, coercive control, strangulation, and the escalating violence portrayed in the series. Together, Jennifer and Ric explore why disclosures often unfold slowly, how offenders use fear and manipulation to maintain control, and why victims may love—and fear—their abusers at the same time. They discuss strategies for overcoming consent defenses, using other acts evidence, identifying lethality risks, and protecting victims and children throughout the process. This conversation offers a candid look at how prosecutors build trust with survivors, prepare complex cases, and pursue justice in crimes that happen behind closed doors—and why these cases remain among the most misunderstood and critically important to address.

For more information:

• Guidance on where to watch the HBO Limited Series Big Little Lies can be found here.
• The bio for Ripley County Prosecutor Ric Hertel can be found here and on Linkedin.
• Please visit AEquitasResource.org and theRSVP.org for on-demand trainings, articles, and expert assistance on the prosecution of intimate partner sexual assault, including Under the Radar: Prosecuting Intimate Partner Sexual Assault.

This podcast discusses the violent crimes of sexual violence, domestic violence, stalking, and human trafficking. If you need support, please call: The National Domestic Violence Hotline, RAINN, and The National Trafficking Hotline.